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Weekend Recap
I don’t think we did anything on Friday night except watch a movie. Saturday my dad and I had a photo shoot with a few of my friends. We met them at the Duke Gardens at 10:30 and couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day. Sunny and blue skies. None of us had been so we just wandered around taking pics in various locations. We even stumbled on to a wedding rehearsal. 🙂 The grounds were beautiful and still had plenty of flowers blooming despite the lateness of the season.
Matt washed the cars while I was gone and then later in the afternoon we went to see Fast and Furious 6. The movie was AWESOME! I am super excited there will be a 7! (This is a total guilty pleasure but I love me some Vin Disel and the Rock!)
Sunday Matt played golf so I went shopping. I ran to Lowe’s hoping I might find a clearance peony. Still no luck so I ended up with a gardenia. I LOVE the smell of gardenias and I used to have a few bushes outside my townhouse. I bought one with the plant to put it under the deck, however once I got home I realized I would really need 2. Next I headed to Briar Creek. I ran to Home Goods and TJ Maxx. I found an adorable ballerina pic. I thought it would go nicely with my old ballerina pics but at 59.00 I decided to pass. 🙁 (Kelly wants a new camera so….yeah.)
Monday we got up and ran to Lowe’s to purchase another gardenia. Then we went to the grocery to pick up a few items for our cook out with mom and dad. They invited us over to their pool to sun and grill. The weather was amazing and we laid out for a while before dad cooked burgers. We ate and headed home.
Overall we had a really nice weekend though I wish I was currently home in bed!
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Garden update
Here are some pics of things that are currently doing amazing in the front yard.
The top photo is the before and the bottom is after. I am soooo happy with how well everything is doing!Happy Memorial Day weekend!
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Hibiscus
I mentioned my hibiscus in a post earlier this week but I didn’t post a pic. At that time I hadn’t actually take a pic of the poor thing. So here it is. It’s supposed to be pink but who really knows. Oh and I also found out my mom used to throw hers out from season to season. Ummm, I had planned to keep it year after year so I’m a little bummed to think I might only have a few months to nurse this little guy back to health only to throw it out. (Although, if it doesn’t die and actually makes it through the summer he’s going in the garage! Dammit, I’m gonna try to save him.) 🙂
Happy Wednesday!
(See the water ring around? That’s from the soil around the plant.)
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Jamaica – Wed & Thursday
Have been posted on the travel blog. 🙂 I’ll try to get Friday and Saturday done tomorrow.
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Weekend roundup
Matt’s parents were up for the weekend. After my hair appt Friday, I came home, met them and the 4 of us headed to meet my parents for dinner at Porters on campus. Matt and I have been several times and we really enjoy it.
Saturday Jill and Steve had plans with friends so Matt and I ran a few errands. We stopped by Lowe’s so I could buy more flowers. Lowe’s had a pretty poor selection so I ended up with a few geraniums. I really wanted more begonias but they didn’t have any 🙁 I did manage to find a hibiscus on clearance. I have no idea if it will make it, the poor thing was soaked through but for $4.00 I thought it was worth tying to save.
We got home and pulled up my pansies and then planted the geraniums. I got about half the pot filled with soil for the hibiscus when I ran out of soil. By this point I was super sweaty and dirty so I didn’t feel like running back to Lowe’s for more soil. I figured we could run by on Sunday.
Sunday the guys were supposed to play golf but the forecast was rainy so we all ended up going to Southpoint in Durham. After like 6 hours of walking around and shopping we headed back to Raleigh to find dinner. We settled on one of our fave Mexican restaurants Dos Taquitos. As always the food was delicious.
Today I ran to Lowe’s and picked up more soil and finally got my hibiscus in a pot. The roots were soaked through. I hope it will dry out soon and be okay. I’ll post some pics if it doesn’t die. 😉
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Good bye vacation! Hello Anniversary!
Matt and I arrived home around midnight on Sunday. It was a long day to say the least. Thankfully I had taken Monday off so while I slept in he got up and drug himself to work. Actually I didn’t really sleep in. I was up and showered by 9 am so that was pretty good, for me at least.
Once I was up I started on our laundry, then I started working on the pics I had taken. I ended up with more than 300 pics from our trip. First I sorted out the ones I actually wanted to edit and then I began. Mostly they just needed a few minor adjustments and I had to spot remove on a few. (Not gonna lie, I’m a little pissed off about the spot since I took it to the camera shop and had my sensor cleaned a few days before we left. Good thing it was free!)
I got about halfway through my editing before I had to stop and run to the store. Monday was Matt and I’s 2nd Anniversary! (WHHHHAAATTT WHHAAATTT!!!!) Like always, we decided to grill steaks. I ran to Earthfare, grabbed a couple of filets and set out to find some sides. I was a little annoyed they didn’t have any green beans so I had to stop at another store on my way home. Anyway, Matt was pretty tired when he got home so he napped for a while and then we started dinner. The steaks were delicious and the green beans were pretty good considering I googled a recipe and threw it together. 🙂
It’s hard to believe we’ve already been married 2 years. I love Matte more each day and find myself constantly telling him he is a great husband. I hear my friends talk and I’m so glad we have the relationship we do. 🙂
Anyway, I have put some of my Jamaica pics up on my photosite. The link may change (I’m trying to change a few things around) but they will still be listed under travel. As for our trip, I will try to start blogging that this week on the travel site. 🙂
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Oh, hello vacay!
It’s so nice to see you! YAY! Matt and I set out early tomorrow morning for our 2nd anniversary trip. Oh yeah, our anniversary is next Monday! WHHHHAAAAAAT!?!?!
Thankfully today is over. The morning started off kind of slow but the afternoon picked up and well, didn’t go so great so I decided to head out early. 😉 Now I just need to finish packing and a few last minute cleaning touch ups and I will be set.
Till next week!
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Marriage is hard
You see this phrase often. Just yesterday I saw this in some article I was reading and I thought to myself, “I don’t feel like being married to Matt is hard.” I wondered what Matt thought about this so I asked him last night and he said the same thing I did, “being married isn’t hard.”
I feel like I need to say that everyday you have to work at being married but overall I don’t feel like it’s hard. (We still have our disagreements and the first 2 years hasn’t always been a picnic but overall it’s good.) I’ve been in relationships that were hard or difficult but for some reason our relationship just seems to fit. I think a lot of this comes from Matt not being the type to try and piss me off and me understanding and realizing this, therefore I don’t “sweat the small stuff” nearly as much as I used to. I feel I’m very conscience in my thinking of “is this really worth it”. Most of the time it’s not worth the extra energy to make something a bigger deal than it really is.
I have a lot of friends that got married around the same time as us and it seems like there are a lot of complaints, from small stuff to large stuff. I’m honestly so glad that’s not me, not anymore. We have our routines and things just seem to work. Sure Matt annoys me from time to time and I know I annoy him and that’s okay.
This morning I saw an article about contracting marriages for 10 years. This would be to cut down on the divorce rate I guess. You give it 10 years and at the end decide if you want to renew your contract or leave. I’m not really sure how I feel about this concept. On one hand, I would absolutely sign a 10 year agreement with Matt. But not because I thought it wouldn’t last past that or that one of us would want out but because to me that’s like saying I KNOW we can last 10 years, and 20 and so on. So if that’s my thought, then would I really need a contract? I guess not.
Honestly I feel like it’s a pretty silly “solution” if you were. I feel the biggest problem with the divorce rate is people aren’t willing to fight for their marriages anymore. I’ve been divorced and 1 person can’t make a marriage. Both people have to be willing to fight for it. I think we are a very throw away society now and that is reflected in the divorce rate. I also feel a lot of this comes from having 2 income households. Back in the day it was much harder to leave because women weren’t able to provide the way they can now. I’m not saying I think we need to go back to this it’s merely a thought.
Clearly I have no solution for this problem and I’m going to start rambling soon.
Happy Friday!
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Whatever Wednesday
This week has been dragging. Maybe it’s because vacation is next week or maybe it’s because it’s just been slow. It doesn’t help that the weather has royally sucked this week! It’s down right cold outside today, the FIRST of MAY! Are you kidding?!?!! It’s been cloudy, rainy and cold and it sucks! I’m ready for spring! But I know what’s going to happen, the weather is going to finally warm up to summer like temps. Then everyone will be complaining that it’s too hot, me included.
One thing I’m looking forward to this weekend is my mani-pedi scheduled for Saturday. Mom and I are going to a place downtown. Unfortunately it seems to be just one lady so we will have to wait on each other, which means we are going to be there for a while. Oh well. I don’t have anything else planned for Saturday.
One week till vacation! Woo hooo!
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Currently
I’ve seen a few other blogs that do a Currently post. In reality, I hope that this might help give the blog some structure and help me update it more. I think I’ve tried stuff like this before with no success so we’ll see how this goes.
Currently: Waiting to go home. Work has been weird lately. Some times we are really slow and others we are super busy. This can literally change within the span of a few minutes. But for now things are quiet. I’ve been looking at the Nik Collection of photo actions Matt just sent me. I am also still currently working on baby Owen’s pics so I am going to home tonight to download my free trial and edit some pics and see what I think. The whole collection is now 149.00 so I guess we’ll see if I like it and if I think it’s worth the money. Ideally I would prefer to start editing pics on Matt’s Mac (if he will let me touch it!) but all my editing programs are on my Dell. It’s not that is sucks, but the battery is about dead so I have to keep it plugged in and well I’ve gotten spoiled with my iPad.
Loving: My yard! The warmer weather and my husband. I hear lots of girls with lots of complaints about their hubbies and I am super thankful I got a good one!
Reading: Summer Secrets by Barbara Freethy. This is a random book I picked up off Amazon a few months ago. Every now and then I’ll go through and buy a few cheap/free books from the Kindle store. This way when I get the urge to read I don’t have to browse through Amazon. Anyway, this book is about 3 sisters who sail around the world as teens. Like 10 years later, a reporter decides to start digging to get to the real “truth” behind the trip. I haven’t gotten very far yet so this may by on my list for a while. 😉
Thinking about: Other people’s problems and how thankful they aren’t mine.
Looking forward to: Our trip to Jamaica! Holy cow, it’s NEXT week! It didn’t really hit me till the other day that we were a little over a week away! I am excited for some much needed sun, beach and booze! 😉 Oddly enough a coworker who got married over the weekend is currently in Jamaica at the same resort. We are getting together for lunch next week to discuss. I’m pretty excited to see how she liked it.
Making me happy: All my flowers. My front yard looks AMAZING! I am so pleased at how well all of my bushes are doing. I even had a neighbor stop by last week to say how nice it looked. I know the flowers will only last a few more weeks but I plan to enjoy them while I can.
So that is my attempt at a currently post. Hopefully it will get better as time goes on. 🙂
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