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  • Happy 3rd Anniversay

    Three years ago today, Matt and I were standing on the lawn at the Sandals La Toc in St Lucia overlooking the ocean, promising our lives to one another.  You can read all about our wedding here.

    I would have to say the last 3 years have been pretty good! Sure, Matt and I have had our ups and downs but for the most part, things have been really good. We’ve had our share of hard times, but there is no one else in this world I would rather face those times with.  He is my rock when I need someone to lean on, he is always there to hold my hand or give me a hug.  He’s wiped more than his share of tears from my face.  He is my everything!  I can’t imagine spending my life with someone else.   What started with friendship has turned into a beautiful love.

    It’s hard for me to imagine my life without him, bed burritoing and all. 😉 (And if you know me, you know I am a bed FREAK!  haha)  I LOVE YOU, MATTE!

    ~k

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  • Spring has sprung!

    I feel like I only recently discovered the beauty of Peonies!  As it happened, I stumbled upon them while looking for flowers for my wedding bouquet.  Since the flowers included in our package sucked, and buying real flowers while in St. Lucia wasn’t really an option, I opted for fake flowers.  *GASP*  I was lucky to find a website that sold very realistic looking fake flowers and I was able to get a family friend to put them together.  I think I spent under $75.00 for the whole thing.  Not too shabby!

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    Where I’m actually going with this post is, I finally bought a peony bush this weekend!  I’ve wanted one for a while and last year they were a little more than I wanted to spend.  Yesterday I found one at Lowes for $24.95.  I didn’t really have a place for it, you know since we don’t really have a yard, but I just HAD to have one.  I ended up planting it on our side yard next to a holly bush.  This probably wasn’t the best place to put it but the tag said it needed partial sun.  Originally I thought about planting it under the deck but that gets a lot of the hot midday sun.  So for now this is where it will live.  There are already some buds so I’m hoping it will bloom pretty soon.

    In other yard related news, I have 6 iris about to bloom, my azaleas are also about to bloom, and my gladiolus are coming up nicely.  All in all I am very happy with the current state of the yard.  I planted the gladiolus about 4 weeks ago I think.  I bought a bag of 60 at Costco over the winter for $12.00.  I didn’t plant all of them though.  I gave a few to mom and I’ll probably give a few more to a co-worker.  I mean 60 is kind of a lot.  Haha

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  • The 3rd anniversary of the 32nd birthday

    Equals 35.  Sigh!

    Saturday was my birthday and I decided I wanted to go out and have fun.  Normally birthdays in our household are celebrated with gifts, cake (sometimes decent looking 😉 ), and a nice dinner out.  Matt and I have never done much in the way of parties for birthdays, aside from his 30th birthday.  I took him out and his friends got him WASTED!  And I got him to dance! 😮  I didn’t want a party for my bday but I thought having a few friends join us for dinner and dancing would be nice.  I asked my friend K and her husband M along with one of Matt’s friends and his new girlfriend.

    After being unable to get reservations at a new restaurant called Stanbury in downtown, I decided on a new place called Mandolin for dinner. {Funny little side note but the space that Mandolin currently occupies was once a place called EVOO.  This was mine and Matt’s first official date spot. It’s since changed hands several times but I’m hoping Mandolin is here to stay for a while.}  I was able to get an 8:30 reservation for Saturday night.  I knew K&M would be waiting since she said they were going to go to the bar and get drinks first but I was surprised to see J&A sitting at their table when Matt and I walked in around 8:20.  About 10 mins later the host came and told us it would be a few more minutes as our table was eating dessert.  About 10 minutes after that, we were told they were paying the tab, and a little after 9 we were finally seated.  Matt bought me a birthday cake so I brought it with us to the restaurant to share.  I didn’t even think about the fact that they would charge a cake cutting fee.  Anyway, they politely waived our fee since we’d had to wait.  How sweet!  *insert slight eye roll here*  I must say though, Mandolin was great!  The atmosphere was really nice and the food was delicious.  Definitely a place Matt and I will go again.

    Thankfully once we were seated, our orders were taken, and our food arrived pretty quickly.  I must say the food was DELICIOUS!  I had the Foie Gras appetizer and then the Chicken and Dumplings for dinner.  SO. YUMMY!  Everyone really enjoyed their food.  After we ate cake, we all headed downtown.  The suggested bar was a new spot called Coglins but the line out the door was a huge turn off.  I mean, come on, it was my birthday. Who wants to stand in line?  Not me!  We headed a block over to The Hive.  It was busy but not stand in line busy.  Drinks were consumed and some dancing was done.  In the end J&A and Matt and I stayed till almost 1 before heading home.  AHHH!  Overall, it was a great night and I had a lot of fun!  I’m so glad our friends joined us!

    ~k

    PS. I bought a new outfit for my birthday.  I got a shirt, necklace and jacket (not pictured).  I’ve had the shoes for a while and they are still fantastic!

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  • Halle Update

    I spoke with the vet on Thursday and the good news is Hal doesn’t have hyperthyroidism and she is not diabetic.  The bad news is, the vet told me she was honestly “not sure what’s wrong with her.”  Short of doing a rather costly ultrasound, the vet didn’t offer much else.  She did say we could put Hal on a really high dose of steroids and see what happens.  This could help if she has some sort of inflammation or cancer or something else.  Seeing as this was the more cost friendly option I told her we’d try it!  Don’t get me wrong, we love Hal, A LOT, but the fact is, she’ll be 14 in August.  She’s getting up there in age and even if they found cancer or something else, we most likely wouldn’t do surgery and I’m not sure we would go for the cure-all method.  The only thing I don’t want, is for her to be in pain or discomfort if possible.

    For now she’ll take steroids and in a month we’ll take her back to the vet for a weight check.  If she’s gained a little weight, she’ll remain on the steroids.  And honestly, one dose of liquid meds a day is not a problem.  In fact, she seems to like it!  Go figure!  The last couple of days I’ve been struggling to get her mouth open so I can squirt the meds in. We’ve managed to get some on her, on the floor, on me, on the bed.  Pretty much everywhere.  Well last night I went in the kitchen to get it ready and she followed me.  Matt made a comment to her that she might not want to go in the kitchen and we both laughed.  As she was standing there, I reached down and put the syringe  up to her mouth to let her smell it.  Much to my surprise, she started licking it.  We finally managed to get it all in her mouth with no struggle at all!  I felt a little silly for not trying that sooner.

    In the few days she’s taken the meds, I feel like she feels a little better.  She hasn’t been sick at all and seems to have a good appetite.  I really hope this continues to work for her.  Having a sick kitty is no fun!

    ~k

  • Our proposal story – 4 years

    OMG!  It’s been exactly 4 years to the day that Matte proposed! EEEKKK!  I feel sure I published this last year too but oh well here we go again!

    March 21, 2010

    As my birthday quickly approached, I wondered what exactly the day would have in store.  I told M that a nice dinner would be fine, no gift necessary.  Years of birthday disappoints, break-ups, etc had left me a “Birthday Scrooge”, as a friend would say.  It’s hard to be disappointed with a nice romantic dinner out.

    I finally decided on a nice Italian restaurant with outdoor seating and M made the reservation for Sunday night.  We both decided to take Monday, my actual birthday off.  As Sunday rolled around so did the clouds.  Over the weekend I received  a few birthday cards containing monetary gifts.  With money in hand I decided I needed a new dress for the occasion.  Well as luck would have it, there was not a cute dress to be found.  A last ditch trip to Target ended the dress hunt without a dress but with new shoes.  Oh well :)

    When we got home we realized there would be no outdoor dining as the clouds were looking quite ominous.  We dressed, complete with new shoes and headed to dinner.  While at dinner M told me he had a “silly” gift for me to open that night.  I didn’t think much of this as I figured he had found some sort of Auburn memorabilia at a local sports store.  After dinner we decided to head to The Cheesecake Factory for dessert.  As we were waiting for a drink and cheesecake, I told M that friend of ours had asked me if I thought he would propose.  I told her that if he did, he would give me a ring pop first.  I explained this was a running joke with M and I.  He just chuckled and asked if they still made those.  With cheesecake in hand we headed back to the house.  Once we were changed and back downstairs M asked if I was ready for my gift.  I said sure.  I grabbed the box from the coffee table and began to unwrap it.  Having no idea what the box might contain, I was quite shocked to see a ring pop right there in front of my eyes.  I looked at M and as I turned he pulled a ring out of his pocket.  He told me that he wanted me to be his wife and “will you marry me?”  I immediately began to cry just looking at him.  I finally managed to say “I think I’m supposed to say Maaaaybee.”  “HAHA yes!!!”  And kissed him.  He put the ring on my finger and I noticed he was shaking.  Awww how sweet considering he had known my answer for months.

    Now a few days have passed and the weight of the ring has become a familiar feeling.  With that feeling comes the knowledge that soon enough I will be M’s wife.

    ~ and just as a side note M did get me an actual gift for my birthday, a cute pink Ipod shuffle :)

  • Poor Hal

    I don’t talk much about Hal on the blog but last week she got sick and started throwing up multiple times a day.  It’s not unusual for her to be sick but after the second day or so of her throwing up multiple times, Matt and I decided it was time to take her to the vet.  I dropped her off Friday morning and waited for the vet to call.  Around lunch she called and told me Hal had lost a considerable amount of weight since 2012.  Like the equivalent of a human losing 90 lbs.  She was concerned.  {I should say, Matt and I realized Hal had lost weight but we didn’t really know how much.  We attributed her weight lose to Julio but the vet said even that wouldn’t equal this kind of weight lose.  I should also add, she is still a smidge overweight.}

    The vet wanted to order some blood work.  She said she heard a grade 3 heart murmur but that it could be caused by hyperthyroidism.  I guess Hal was right in “the grey area” last time her thyroid was checked.  After doing some research, it would seem she has a lot of symptoms for hyperthyroidism.

    • Weight Loss – The most common complaint that takes hyperthyroid cats to the vet is weight loss. These cats remind me of the pink panther – they are lean in the extreme. Perceptive owners notice that although their cats are losing weight, their appetite is normal or increased. This is because the pet’s metabolic rate has accelerated and it is using up food calories just as fast as it can consume them.
    • Increased appetite – Most hyperthyroid cats are eating more to meet their increased need for calories. You will hear them munching more and complaining when their food dish is empty. However, when they have reached the late stages of this disease, their general health deteriorates to the point that they don’t have much appetite.
    • Poor hair coat – Many hyperthyroid cats appear unkempt. Some no longer groom themselves the way they used to while others over-groom themselves to the point where their hair coat is thin or ragged.
    • Fast heart rate – It is very common for hyperthyroid cats to have an abnormally fast heart beat. Your cat’s normal relaxed heart rate at home should be 140 to 200 beats per minute. It will often be faster at the animal hospital due to fear. Many cats with hyperthyroidism have heart rates of over 200 even when they are relaxed at home.
    • Increased drinking and Increased Urination – This is also common occurrence in hyperthyroidism. Your cat’s increased thirst is due to the increased thyroxine in its system. It’s increased urine production is due to its increased water intake.
    • Vomiting – We do not know why some cats with hyperthyroidism vomit. It occurs in hyperthyroid humans as well. Perhaps it is due to the increased amounts of food they eat, or perhaps to the direct effects of their high thyroxine levels on stomach motility and portions of the brain.

    The vet also mentioned Pancreatitis.  I haven’t really researched this option since I hope it is less likely the reason.  Her labs were supposed to be back today so I’m just waiting to hear from the vet.  If she does have hyperthyroidism it should be treatable with an inexpensive daily pill.

    I’m ready to have an answer because this happened about 2 years ago and we had her teeth cleaned because the vet thought she might have an abscess.  We then switched her to a chicken-free diet since the vet told us some cats can develop an allergy to chicken.  Now we are back to square one, only things seem to be a bit worse.  Hal was sick 3x last night.  As well as being sick Saturday night.

    Poor girl.  I get frustrated with her for bothering me in the night when she’s sick but I can’t help but feel sorry for her these past few days.  I’m sure she doesn’t want to throw up all the time.  :/

    ~k

     

  • Mr. Picky Pants

    Matt and I have been on a coffee kick lately on weekend mornings.  We have about 3 mugs that hold 10+ oz and fit under the Kuerig so we decided we needed some bigger mugs.  When Matt first mentioned this, I told him I’d run to Home Goods or TJ Maxx and pick up a few new ones.  Well work has been crazy or it’s been cold and rainy so I haven’t run out at lunch to look.

    Yesterday the weather was nice and we needed to run to the grocery store.  Matt asked if I wanted to grab lunch first so I said yes.  We headed to Briar Creek to Panera.  I told him we could run to Home Goods and TJ Maxx to get new mugs after we ate.  We get to TJ Maxx and I find a little wall of fun mugs and tell Matt to pick some out.  He is like “ummm I want a set.”  Ohhhhh!  Well okay then.  That is news to me.  We walk over to Home Goods because I figure they will have some sort of set.  We find some cute white ones but he doesn’t like these either.  Once we’ve completed our lap around the store I suggest we walk down to Pier 1.  Surely they will have something he likes.

    Pier 1 had a much better selection and the prices weren’t much more than what we found at Home Goods.  We finally agreed on, wait for it……..plain white mugs! Honestly this works for me.  I’ve had visions of fun “fancy” mugs for a while and the white will let me do this.  I know there are paints and pens for ceramic that you can use and then bake into the mug.

    Here are a few ideas I am currently loving.

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    I feel like either polka dots or the half painted ones will win out.  Of course they will all be gold.  I like the simple designs the best but there are tons of ideas if you image search diy mugs.  I’ll post pics once I add the finishing touches to ours!

    ~k

  • 10/21/09

    Yesterday was crazy busy and I was up to my eyes in emails until the minute I left.  Thankfully today at work has been pretty slow.  This has given me some free time and I’ve spent most of the afternoon browsing through my first blog.  That’s right folks, there was a blog before this one!  And to be honest, I think it was better.  For most of that blog, I was in the middle of wedding planning so there were lots of wedding planning posts.  There were also lots of rants too!  Nothing gets a girl worked up like wedding (and non wedding) related drama!

    Anyway, so I started looking and I’ve been blogging for almost 5 years, 10-29-09? Um WOW!  That’s crazy.  What’s crazier is I still probably only have like 5 followers.  HAHA!  Blogging has never been about being the most popular blog on the web.  I’ll be the first to say just how boring I am but I do like to write (though again, I feel like my writing was better back then too!)  I was much better about blogging daily through the week on the old blog too.  Basically it was just better and I shared my boredom much more freely and often.  I might repost a few things from that blog in the coming weeks.  Unfortunately we weren’t able to move those posts when I started this blog.  I think it was more of our problem and not an actual limitation of the blog itself.  Regardless, it’s still fun to go back and read about the past.  Maybe I’ll try to step up my game on this blog in the coming weeks! 😉

    Happy Friday!

    ~k

     

  • Oh hey Spring! Come back!

    Yesterday was an absolutely beautiful day in North Carolina.  Mid 60’s and gorgeous.  Today, temps are falling and they are predicting freezing rain and sleet!  Umm, gross!  After the last snow, I was officially OVER Winter!  Bring on sunshine and shorts!

    Matt and I took full advantage of the beautiful weather yesterday and headed downtown for lunch.  We ended up at Trophy Brewing Co. for pizza and beer.  The food and drinks were really good.  The only downside was, they were pretty busy so we ended up sitting at the bar and not outside.  After lunch, we drove around downtown for a few minutes before heading out to find some ice cream.  I’d been craving ice cream all weekend and nothing says Spring like ice cream.
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    There is a really good local ice cream place called Fresh on Glenwood, near our house.  Matt suggested we stop there before heading over to Walmart.  We both got cookies and cream ice cream.  It was pretty busy when we first arrived but once we got our cones the place had cleared out.  We found a nice picnic table to sit and eat and enjoy the day.

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    After ice cream we headed out to Briar Creek to run to Walmart.   Mom told me about some face cream that was a must but said the Walmart brand was better than the name brand.  I was looking for the Equate Face & Neck Cream Advanced Firming but I ended up with the Equate Beauty Age Control Day Cream for Mature Skin.  Of course Walmart was a disaster and I couldn’t find the Face & Neck Cream.  I used the Beauty Age Control last night and this morning and it feels and smells wonderful.  It is also pretty thick and hydrating.  I used it under my foundation this morning and my skin had a nice dewy glow.  Score!  I’m going to try it out for a few more days and see how it does but based on first impressions, I like it!

    ~k

  • Lovey dovey

    Sometimes you just need to write a lovey, dovey post about your honey!

    Matt is such a wonderful husband and I try to tell him this as much as I can.  I hope he knows just how much I love and appreciate everything he does for me!  We’ve been through ups and downs and good times and bad times in the almost 3 years we’ve been married.  Some of which, other couples might not would have made it through but I feel like our marriage is so much stronger having gone through the good and bad together.  I know that he is always here for me whether it’s helping me clean the house or offering a much needed hug after a bad day.  Sometimes it’s just sitting on the couch cuddling while watching TV.

    He is kind and compassionate.  He is not petty or catty.  He doesn’t argue over stupid stuff, nor does he treat me poorly or disrespect me.  I couldn’t have asked for a better husband and partner!

    I love you Matte!

    ~k